Sunday, July 3, 2011

July 2, 2011



Had a horrible night sleeping. The only good thing was the fact that I brought my book and was able to read. Finally fell asleep around 3:30 am. Harriet was heading back to Portland in order to celebrate her grandson’s third birthday. In order to get to the airport, she had to leave the hotel by 5:30. When she left, I never fell back to sleep.

When I got out of the shower, the light on the phone was blinking. I figured that Harriet must have forgotten something. Unfortunately, it was a message from Lil Leslie letting Harriet know that Shirley Girardin had fainted last night and was now in the hospital. I spend each break checking with Nancy Church from Headquarters to see if she had heard anything, but sadly she had not. Worry, worry, worry.

The first session was Girl Scouts—Building Confidence in Girls. Jaclyn Libowitz, Chief of Staff, Girls Scouts USA was the first speaker. She thanked KD for the support we have given the troops. This year we have helped 42,000 Girl Scouts! Caroline Tydings, a Gold Award winner, followed her.  Caroline is 17 years old and had more poised speaking in front of a large audience than anyone I have ever seen. She has spoken on Capitol Hill advocating the passage of Healthy Media for Youth Act. www.girlscouts4girls.org  The final speaker was Hope Sears. Hope is a Brownie scout who sold 1500 Girl Scout cookies to be sent to our troops over seas.

The second General Session was “Be Bold, Be Confident.” Jessica Gendron Williams, Vice President of Women’s Division, Phired Up spoke on developing confidence skills that can be used for recruitment, job interviews, or any time through out your life. Her motto was “If you are not confident, look like you are.”

By lunch, we had spent quite a bit of time on building confidence as part of the Confidence Coalition developed by Kappa Delta. The lunch keynote speaker was once again a lesson on developing confidence. This time the speaker was Julie Marie Carrier, author of BeYOUtiful and a coach on MTV’s MADE. She was engaging, but there was a feeling among the older alumnae that enough was enough.

The Women of Achievement brought a packed house. The women on the panel have very impressive achievements. On the panel were Maura Hayes, Director of Production Operations, Times Square Studios; Mona Jain, M.D., Ph.D., former Director of Family and Health Services, Mantee County Head Start; Judy Castle Scott, Director of American Foundation for the Blind; and Leigh Anne Tuohy, author, inspiration for the movie The Blind Side.

Tonight was the White Rose Banquet. President, Beth Martin Langford presented the traditional White Rose Toast. Betty Mulkey gave a moving tribute to outgoing National Vice President- Kim Flood Ryan. Following Betty’s tribute, a young lady from Delta Gamma, announced that a scholarship fund has been established in Kim’s name for one of “Kim’s Kentucky Girls.”  Beth Langford did a beautiful tribute for outgoing National Vice President-Alumnae, Margaret Lee Watson. The chapter president from University of Alabama then announced that the chapter has established the Margaret Lee Watson Community Service Award.

The top awards were announced.  Greater Atlanta Day AC is the top alumnae chapter, University of Louisiana-Lafayette was named the top collegiate chapter while the University of South Carolina was awarded the Outstanding House Corporation Award while Florida State won the Outstanding Advisory Board Award. 

Leigh Anne Tuohy was the evening’s keynote speaker. She challenged everyone to put herself out there and extend themselves beyond their own comfort zone. Helping others is what Kappa Delta is all about.

The evening ended with a Kappa Delta friendship circle, hugs and tears.

I returned to the room.  Matthew had arrived and was settle in. Off to bed early so we can get an early start in the morning.


Friday, July 1, 2011

July 1, 2011


July 1

Before I start today’s report, I want to make a correction to the entry posted yesterday. Typical computer—cut off part of what I had written. Once Matt and I picked up Tisha from Ontario Airport, we headed east on Interstate 10. When we came to a town named Goodyear, both my car and Matthew demanded food. We fed them both, then on to Tuscon.

I also forgot to include in last night’s posting that there was a surprise tribute for Judy Hare Thorne, Angelos editor who is retiring from her position after 28 years. She will be missed by everyone.

Harriet and I were up nice and early this morning. At 7 am more than half the convention attendees were dressed in green Confidence Coalition T-shirts. We all met outside, grabbed bottled water and then began a 1 mile walk in support of the KD Foundation. Harriet and I were walking with Dr. Kristy Weber a member of the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons Research Section who arrived from Baltimore last night so she can thank Kappa Delta for our continuous support. Dr. Weber is also a past recipient of the KD Orthopaedic award to assist her studies in researching cancer invading the bones as a result of breast or kidney cancer.

The Foundation Breakfast was chaired by Lil Leslie, KD Foundation President. Each of the KD partnership organizations was recognized and everyone was informed of all of our contributions. From only Crippled Children’s Hospital and the Orthopedic research grants when I first joined KD, to our current numerous philanthropies, we are well recognized throughout the country. Foundation also presented the Undergraduate and Graduate scholarships during the breakfast. This year over $27,000 in scholarships were presented.

Lunch was a celebration of KD for Life. New members were inducted into the Nautilus Circle for 25 years of KD membership, White Rose Circle for 50 years of KD Membership and the Emerald Circle for 60 years of membership. As they introduced each group they had pictures of the hairstyles and dress styles in those days. There was  a lot of laughing among everyone.

The Order of the Pearl members were announced. These are women who were honored for their community service. Thirteen ladies were inducted.

The final business meeting of this convention included the announcement that Allison Jakes Argersinger has been elected National Vice-President, Membership. Following the close of the meeting Allison was installed along with Tricia Ruma Spence who was installed as National Vice-President, Alumnae.

This evening we had a “fun night” dinner outside. We had a wonderful southwest buffet. As the sun went down, you could see a HUGE KD illuminated on the mountainside. Following dinner was a fireworks show on par with the show my daughter and I saw when we went to the Boston Pops for the fourth of July 15 years ago. Those who wanted to see a movie, The Blindside is being shown since Leigh Anne Tuohy will be signing her book and will also be on the Women of Achievement panel tomorrow.

Going to be early since Harriet has to be up at the crack of dawn tomorrow to head back to Portland to celebrate her grandson’s third birthday.